What is OCD
What is OCD ? OCD is the short form for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder(OCD). OCD is a complex anxiety disorder characterized by the presence of obsessions and compulsions. Obsessions are unwanted, intrusive thoughts or images that cause a terrific deal of anxiousness or fearfulness, while compulsions are repeated behavior that individuals carry out in attempts to decrease the uncomfortableness developed by the obsessions.
Obsessive-compulsive disorder affects at least two or three percentage of the human population, although the range of undiscovered instances could be substantially greater. Obsessive Compulsive Disorder does not discriminate and is affecting people from all walks of life.
It impacts men and women likewise, and it typically begins between the age range of 7-25. Professional medical experts are starting to have an understanding of OCD and what are the potential causes of OCD. Often Obsessive-complusive-disorder is discovered in more than one family members , signifying that it might be due to hereditary factors.
The way OCD is inherited is not clearly grasped, but experts think that it is complicated and consists of many genetics.
Everyone has OCD symptoms at one point or another in their lifetime.
Genuine Obsessive-compulsive disorder is in every person where it is argued that everyone has some form of OCD to some extent at one time or another. In reality it would be as extreme to say that everybody, has a OCD.
This is because everyone has OCD thoughts at certain time of their lifetime due to the life circumstances.For example, a person going to a final exam may repeatedly check for his or her matric card as without it, they can not sit for the exam. But such obsessions stops after they complete one important moment of their life.
The only difference between an individual with Obsessive-compulsive disorder and someone without having OCD is how they act in response to their thoughts. Affected individuals of OCD usually find them selves involuntarily carrying out ritualistic acts in response to distressing or unpleasant thoughts. OCD is closely associated to concern of repercussions.
The obsessive person worries that a routine is needed or undesirable things will occur. It can urge emotions of severe panic or anxiety and fearfulness; it can also force a sufferer to execute actions repetitively.
A characteristic of OCD is that the individual acknowledges that her thoughts or behaviors are mindless or extreme. On the other hand, the drive can be so strong that the individual gives in to the compulsion even though he or she understands that it makes no sense.
The major issue for individuals with OCD is not intellectually acknowledging that the obsessions are improbable. In the beginning, people with OCD carry out compulsive and/or avoidant actions in an effort to minimize the stress and anxiety induced by their obsessions.
Unfortunately, whilst performing these behaviors may possibly at first decrease the anxiousness and obsessions, it in fact reinforces and worsens both equally in the long-term. This in turn leads to an increase in compulsions, which brings to even additional obsessions and more stress and anxiety. Supporting to dismiss the a sense of shame or guiltiness that the OCD is someone’s fault is essential in facilitating successful treatment.
Generally, the need to provide assurance is strengthened by the sufferer’s tenaciousness at wearing family members down. Families are frequently at a loss about how to provide support without the need of offering reassurance. OCD will not go aside by by itself, so it is important to seek treatment. OCD will not be healed completely, but the patient and his/her loved ones can be aided to manage their reactions to the signs and symptoms.
Obsessive-compulsive disorder is very common; however, the treatment should be taken seriously and under stringent supervising. If Obsessive-complusive-disorder disrupted your day-to-day living, you must seek out help from the medical professional. Beginning phase treatment will have a greater likelihood of recovery, and less suffer to the affected person and his family members. Do not take any OCD medications with out professional medical guidance and supervision.
My Journey and Struggles with OCD.
So do you have OCD ? What made you to find this blog ? Why you want to know what is OCD ? I am in my mid 30’s right now and when I look back, I have been suffering from OCD for about 30 years now. Ever since when I am 5 years old ! . I did not know what is OCD until this year. All the while, I thought I am evil. I will be posting each and every OCD behaviours that I had over the past 30 years in the My OCD Stories section. Some of it a damn dirty thoughts that made me felt useless and cheap.
I have been suffering in silence all these years thinking that I am so bad and I don’t deserve to live another day. I am a Hindu by religion. Imagine if you are in the midst of praying to god in a very special prayer attended by hundreds of people in a local temple and when you close your eyes to give focus to the prayers, you get nothing but sexual images ! Images of penis, womens body parts etc or sexual acts. How do you will feel ? How am i going to tell this to people ? How will people react to your OCD symptoms ? I felt lonely and isolated. Every input that comes to my eyes and ears will be treated with Automated Negative Thoughts. My brain will only provide the best of negative thoughts as a reaction.
It will be everything that you do not want to be thinking at that moment. So I began searcing in Google for automated negative thoughts. Slowly, the term OCD also came into the equation. Both are inter related. Then you have Anxiety Disorder as the mother of both OCD and Automated Negative Thoughts. Because of OCD, I get panic and suffer from terrible anxiety thinking what will happen to my self because my bad thoughts in a temple. Have I commited a sin ? Will I be punished by god ? Will my karma get affected ? This is only a sample of what I am having in my OCD arsenal.
There are plenty more which I am going to share with you. So back to the question, why are you here ? Chances are you are either have self diagnose your self of OCD or trying to help someone you love by finding out more about OCD. Either way, you are heading the right direction.
Self realization of why this thing happens and identifying the root cause of your obsessions will make you feel better. I always feel that there is 2 persons inside me. One is the good guy that world know while the second is the resident evil that destroys my life within. Whenever OCD happens, I know that it not me that causing all this troubles. It is the bad guy. So I feel better about that.


If you also have OCD, you don’t need to fight your mind. You can heal it. Check out my blog in the weeks to come to see how I’ve taken control of my OCD.
himy name is josh im 24 and safreing from ocd 4 3years and i have bad throts about doing thinks that i wood never do and its killing me its just dont stop and i need help but its to hard to talk about it coz i dont want any 1 ta think im weird it just dont stop iv been in and out of hospartal no one nos what i think about but reading this mad it all come bk but its helping a bit i just want ta be normal plez help me
hi josh,
i know the pain. OCD is not easy to battle. What can i say is you do some self help that can make you feel better and put you in the driving seat. you may consider the brain wave cd’s or the linden method that i put in the web. i did not try the linden method my self, but it comes with a good explanation.pls check it out.
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Hi,
As mentioned in the above comment, i know the pain…Being a hindu while doing prayers if such images comes then nobody can stop the person to do the rituals like” chanting sorry, sorry” kind of thing. It seems to other persons in the crowd that guy is mentally affected. I am also experience the same.
Can u pls provide some information where i can get that lindens method of self help
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If you are plagued by several of the signs/symptoms mentioned in this blog, you should be evaluated by a licensed mental health professional. There is usually an underlying unconscious conflict that has to be uncovered in psychotherapy. Check out AskDrO.com to see how he describes OCD and let him know what you think!
yes….life with ocd is like hell…only the sufferers knows the pain
hi.i am 27 years old. i too suffering from pure O from last 10 years. i took medicines once i stop them i got my OCD back. now i am on cognizent behaviour therapy. my dad asking me to get married. what shell i do now ? kindly suggest.
just go ahead and get married…don’t let OCD hinder your progress in life….
i have ocd and i am happily married with one lovely kid…
you should too…
ocd is a secondary issue….
I am desparately trying to explain all of my internal thoughts and feelings when my OCD really kicks in to my family. I am really trying to explain how these feelings are to me and why I do the things I do. I am a sufferer of OCD for the past 25 years and I am at a loss! How do you describe the urges and feelings you get? My struggle is that I am a compulsive shopper. Any help that you folks out there in cyberland could give me would truly be greatly appreciated!
most probably, most people around us will have OCD too….if not at present..probably in the past..as OCD effects millions of people around the world….
so…ask around….whatever is happening to you…do they they have same thoughts or feeling….
if the response they give looks positive…ie…they are opening up ..then share the pain with them…
if the response is negative….like..what ????…then stop and change topic……
so..pick the right people and share…it will ease your pain….
How to cure OCD with OCD
By Roy Logan
First off, I have no credentials other than a history of having OCD. With a combination of leaning towards introverted, having a touch of aspergers and spending a lot of time self reflecting, I’ve discovered my own cure for OCD. My goal in this writing is to inspire others to follow a similar path and possibly intrigue the professional world to see if there’s something to be learned from my experiences.
I love spotting people with OCD habits. Most people seem to have at least a little obsessive behavior with something in there lives. I don’t consider a person to be truly OCD until it’s interfered with their lives in some negative way. For many, it’s merely a mental satisfaction by way of a completion of a task or making order of things. My habits started at avoiding cracks in sidewalks to writing my name over and over till it looked perfect on papers. It graduated to habits such as closing my eyes till it felt like both eyelids had closed at exactly the same time – while I was driving!
Not long after that was when I started picking up habits to reverse my OCD. I wouldn’t be till a couple years later that I realized there was a formula that seemed to fit with all my OCD reversing habits. It all boiled down to developing an OCD relationship with priority. Prioritizing my OCD habits become the habit itself.
For instance, I would ask myself, “Should I complete this task of pressing my thumbnail under all my other fingernails till they felt even, or should I finish my homework now”? Should I satisfy my craving to organize the magazines in this doctors office, or should I not bother thus looking normal to the pretty girl in the room?
It wasn’t long before I began creating mental tools to aid in my system of fighting OCD with OCD of priority which I still use in present day. I assign points to arbitrary concepts.
There are “social acceptance points”. Should I do something habitual, or would I stand to gain more social acceptance points by not looking ridiculous with an odd habit.
There are “life experience points”. Should I rename all the pictures on my hard drive or gain more life experience points by hanging out with some old friends.
You can create your own point system for things that matter to you. For instance, “good mom points”. Should I iron out every microscopic crease in my kids pants, or gain good mom points by reading a book to them instead. Should I spend more time making this spreadsheet looking perfect, or gain more “likeliness to be promoted” points by finishing all my duties first.
I believe most people with OCD have no problem creating new things to have OCD with. Acquiring and OCD with the priority of ones OCD should be no different. It’s like catching a good virus. It has the potential to spread good habits and killing the bad ones. So long as you continue to occupy your mind with priority before task completion, order creation or anything else seamed low priority or negatively impacting, you will be on a path leading to OCD becoming less problematic.
Please Please Please help me. whoever wrote this please help me i am getting the same obsessive though. i feel that god/goddess are mad at me so i pray more, but when i close my eyes to pay to the god goddess i get terrible images. i don’t know where to get help. it is getting worse, before i could just pray but now i’m saying sorry sorry sorry to god/goddess more than prayers.. please hlep me what did you do and what worked the best for you? please email me pradeep.shrestha78@gmail.com
We’ll OCD isn’t picky, it doesnt matter if you’re super religious or just plain ole Joe Schmoe, it can attack you. Try your best not to feel bad because in the end it’s really not you fault. Ask your God for help
Thank you all for being so honest about yourself. I have been struggling with OCD for the last 15years. The irony is that it is my job to provide emotional support to others, but I just dont have the solutions to my own problems. The thoughts in me are pure evil the actions are sometimes just so revolting.
Just having read this blog has given me fresh courage to try again
Hey, I defeated OCD last March after 5 hard years. After trying a lot of different things, I tried this new trick: I automatically labeled compulsions or obsessions as “BS”(bullshit). So whenever an obsession or compulsion use to pop up in my mind, my mind would automatically call it “BS” and I wouldn’t think about it. It actually became an involuntary process. I wouldn’t even notice it. I think if you get a similar thought – like “fear of bedbugs” you should just label it as “BS” in your mind and try not think about it at all.
Another trick which was also of great help was that I told myself I wanted to be cool and carefree. So whenever an obsession popped up in my mind, I would ask myself is worrying about this thought below my “coolness index”? As the answer would be yes, I simply wouldn’t think about it. You could also think about a friend in a similar situation, whether or not he would have worried about that thought?
Hope this helps!
If it does please try spreading these techniques to help people with OCD.
Please advice on how the gain control mind back.
here’s a nice excerpt from a story a friend wrote:
“now then there was my obsessive phase, I had something called o.c.d obssesive conpulsion disorder, which starts as niggly little things that you just have to do, like turning off switches if there’s no plugs in them, or never walking on the cracks in the pavement, whatever, we’ve all got one, only mine developed quite a lot, whereby it got to the point where I had to turn light switches on and off before I came into a room and incredible 19 times, so everyone thought i’d gone mad, I tried explaining to them ‘i’m not mad, I just have to do it!’. well it got worse and worse, then I had the last straw one day when I was at school in my little study room and the bell went for lessons and it took me forty minutes to get from my chair to the door (about 4 yards) because things had got so out of control. I decided fuck this and phoned this helpline and they said ‘stop doing it’ and I thought fat lot of fucking help you are! but then I thought, yeah, I should just stop doing it, so I did, and that was that.”
i also had a fun time of release in freeing myself of it by doing the opposite of whatever the compulsive habit was. for instance, if it was folding something perfectly, i’d make sure it was all over the place. i’ve been o.c.d.-FREE!!!!! for 10 years now. THANK GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hi my name is tanya, im 21 years old and im going through hell a year ago i went to the doctors as i was feeling down and depressed i was put on antidepressants which i was on for over a year.I did not tell the doctor the truth as to why i was so depressed because i felt to ashamed i think i have sexual ocd i constantly have images in my head of people and think things about people such as friends and people i work with i cant get them out of my head. I have a partner of 6 years and everytime i think bad things i have to tell him to ease my guilt of thinking these things i tell him sexual thoughts i have about others and its rewining my relationship i go over them in my head that many times i beleive i have done something wrong most thoughts are about cheating on my partner and i go over and over them in my head and start to beleive i have i cant rest until i have told him the bad things i have thought this has been happening for over a year now and i cant take much more i have told my mum today but i think she already knew, when i am around people i sit on my hands so i dont knock people which then triggers bad thoughts i have been on tablets and nothing has worked i still feel the same i did a year ago if not worse but i only told the doctor i was sad and low not the real reason as i was to ashamed if there anything i can do to get better im making a appointment to go see the doctor as i cant go on like this i cant sleep and im so tierd my life seams a mess im 21 years old and my life is a fight everyday my only wish is for one second not to feel like this and all these thoughts to go away and have a loving relationship i once had i have pushed my partner away as i dont want him to have this life sentance i cant look at him without thinking bad things and i have to tell him exacly what i have thought evan though i know what i tell him will hurt him please help
Hi Tanya,
OCD of sexual thoughts in nature are the worst of all. We will feel sick and disgusted. Until now, i have not found a perfect remedy.
I only try not to focus on it. Try to do meditation and get closer to got. You will find some reduction to the thoughts.
Hiya,
I’m 13 and I’ve been. Suffering from OCD for as long as I can remember. it’s most difficult because my family dont understand, and my friends are only beginning too. For instance, my teammates from school would all put their collars up, which really tugs at my obsessesion. They ate not trying to be mean, but they just dint understand. I don’t tend to have bad thoughts, only get really anxious if I dont do my rituals. When I was younger, I thought it was normal. Now I know it’s not.
Good luck to all trying to get over it, it’s a struggle but keep going!
Xx
To all, I can feel everyones pain here. There is good news though, and it’s God. I have had the worst thoughts to the extreme and our freedom is in Him. I just want to encourage every one, whether you are spiritual or not, to seek him becuase he is calling us to come to him for help. I really feel that OCD is more of a Satanic illness (think about it. The important thing though is DONT GIVE UP! please dont. As terrible as OCD is, dont lose hope. I know it’s easier said then done but have faith in him that he will deliver you. He has done it for me and I know he is still working on me. Cry out to him becuase he loves you. And dont be tricked into thinking that this is the way God made you becuase that is a lie from satan. Nothing is wrong with you. Remember this verse from the bible 2nd Timothy 1:7 “For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind” Here is another Proverbs 15:15 “All the days of the desponding and afflicted are made evil [by anxious thoughts and forebodings], but he who has a glad heart has a continual feast [regardless of circumstances]” And another…2 Corinthians 10:2-6 ” 4(For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;)
5 Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ”
There is so many more scriptures that can help us. Please dont give up. I encourage you to read a book that has helped me and even watching her show online (new video everyday). The name of the book is Battlefield of the Mind by Joyce Meyer…it is a best seller and can really give you a new perspective at looking at OCD. She also has a website…Joycemeyer.org. I will pray for you all and hope this encouraged you a bit. Remember to not lose hope.
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My dear friends, no need to worry more! , here is the solution!
whenever obsessive thought comes just laugh at them,there should be smile at ur face at that moment though it is hard, u will see that obsessive thought will pass away in few seconds. Now take the vow from now that”I will laugh and smile at my funny thoughts for ever” n just smile and say OCD has gone forever wow!!!
now let me clear the basic funda behind this>OCD is nothing but a bad habit of people with low will power. now a smoker cant give away cigrets, did it mean that he have compulsion to smoke another cigreet, the answer is NO! it is just his habit to smoke daily.similarly OCD is also ur bad habit, so destroy this habit just like military destroys enemy! n finally the win is ur, and ocd will say sorry to u, dont forgive it,hang it! Now let me clear u another thing in the vow u have taken above that u when u smile at ur funny thoughts, these thoughts will fear from u n will never dare to come near u,even within the radius of 50 metre! last but not the least>save the vow above in ur notepad, and rename the notepad with I_AM_KING. THE WIN IS YOUR MY FRIENDS!
Dear friends,
My son 19 yrs old a bright student is suffering from loss of concentration in his studies.He is an engg student and could not prepare for exam for last two years.Doctors say he has symptom of ocd and psycosis.we are giving him medicines since 2 months but still cannot make him study.He has developed this disease by over controlling his sex thoughts by meditation and prayer under advise of one of my friends of spiritual nature..Later on his condition worsened and he has to be in meditatation and prayers to control his thoughts which lead him to ocd.At present he has left all such habbits but his mind didnt recover fully..We are worried very much.pl help.
I would first of all like to reassure all of you intelligent people that this isn’t something satanic. you have not been inflicted by a giant evil overlord with red horns who lives in the fiery pits of hell. everyone is their own person, and everyone can beat this.
The human brain is very complex, and with a combination of many varying factors can become dependant on specific routines, often to the point of obsessive compulsive disorders. I am personally an atheist. This is my opinion.
The good thing is, we all have the potential to be in control of ourselves. anxiety and depression seem determined to keep us in our painful habits. they become a necessity, or we begin to panic and feel that something is out of place.
I find what helps, is resisting my habit due to the motivation of ‘not looking strange’ to someone I respect. If you reward yourself with self-esteem, that can become as addictive as your habit. also, try replacing it with something less harmful. As soon as I go to do my habit, I start sewing or playing guitar. do something creative.
My love and best wishes to you all <3
I am currently in the occupational therapy assistant program and I’m doing a project on OCD. I have learned a lot about this disorder and how it is treated. I’m still not sure if it is a learned disorder or if it is hereditary. I do have a question that I hope someone can help me with. Can someone suggest an OT treatment for OCD or how OT can treat someone diagnosis with OCD? Thanks for any suggests.
Dear Priscilla,
Thank you for your kind encouragement! I also confess 2 Timothy 1:7
And to all of you here, hang in there, DO NOT GIVE UP, we will win this battle! When the thoughts come, just don’t think. I know it’s easier said than done, but I’ve read that OCD is a habit. It’s a process where some switch in your mind (the amgydala) gets turned on. Have to unlearn that habit to remove OCD!
Draw on God’s strength too; He is for you. And if He is for you, then who can be against you? (Romans 8:31)
Dear Priscilla,
Thank you for your kind encouragement! I also confess 2 Timothy 1:7
And to all of you here, hang in there, DO NOT GIVE UP, we will win this battle! When the thoughts come, just don’t think. I know it’s easier said than done, but I’ve read that OCD is a habit. It’s a process where some switch in your mind (the amgydala) gets turned on. Have to unlearn that habit to remove OCD!
Draw on God’s strength too; He is for you. And if He is for you, then who can be against you? (Romans 8:31)
And tell yourself OCD is not a mental disorder; OCD is just a behavioural habit!
Think positive, away with negative thoughts!
priscilla,
i fully agree with u that ocd is a satanic illness or spiritually related illness also it could be the result of past life karma {m a hindu} its hell of a ilness i would like to know from u whether u got cured from it and if yes how pls give the details.
girish
giireisp@gmail.com
Girish,
OCD and ANT(Automated Negative Thoughts) are inter related and disruptive to our life.I have searched all over for the solution and finally its shows back to our mind and brain as the rootcause. Our mind and brain are fearing something causing all the defensive actions we are taking. To control our mind, i have read a lot of books and eventually its all pointing to meditation as a solution ands its not easy to do as our fears will get bigger and severe. I am going to post few new topic around this one and check it back later. Finally i am starting to feel better and i will share with you the many options that you have today to at least take some action and comfort your self rather than getting the OCD to overtake your life forever. Stay Tuned.
I understand and empathize with the people that struggles with this disorder. I am a physiotherapist, Shamanic Practitioner and Reiki practitioner and I have helped alot of people cope with and manage their OCD. If you need help coping, you should definitely consider alternative therapies or check out my website.
As a therapist I find the ERPA exercises (exposure, ritual pervention, and awareness)to be very helpful. Briefly stated, this exercise entails having someone face their fears while preventing from doing the ritual that is often associated with the fear. As this exercise is repeated over and over,the fear that is usually associated with the exposure gradually diminishes.
I’ve learned so much about OCD from helping an author who wrote a love story where one of the main characters has OCD. One of her family members has OCD and went through CBT. With all the things I’ve learned about, from exposures to cognitive behavior therapy, the most valuable lesson is that there aren’t enough accurate portrayals of OCD. Even working with publishers can be difficult because of preconceived notions about how OCD can affect someone. Her name is Andrea Kaufman and hopefully her book Oxford Messed Up can help enlighten public perceptions.
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Have you had your hormone levels tested? You should do that. You could have a hormone imbalance. Or a fertillity problem. Stress can also cause you to miss periods. Take a deep breath and relax! I was 35 when I had my first child. When I was 37 I had a miscarriage at 9 weeks. My doctor said it was probably a blighted ovum which means it was never a viable pregnancy, and very common – no matter your age. This was in mid-November. By January 2 I was pregnant again, and now have a happy, healthy 18 month old girl. I have pretty much forgotten about the miscarriage at this point. A good friend of mine had her first baby on her 40th birthday. She had a miscarriage with a second pregnancy about a year later. When she asked her doctor why it happened, he said Youre 40 – why do you think it happened? She immediately got a new doctor – and is happily pregnant again. I know at least 2 other women who had miscarriages in their early 30s and went on to have two more babies. Sad as they are, miscarriages are pretty common. It sounds like you dont have any trouble getting pregnant, so you should have no trouble having a second baby! Also – it sounds like your doc is not particularly Maybe you should look into switching to another doctor.
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Hi I’m 12 and I have had OCD since I was 9 my mum takes away all the soap in the house when she finds out its back and I live in fear help me please x
Please help me… I am suffering from ocd. I am always surrounded with fear, death, religious etc thoughts.
Is there any way that i can live normal life…. I believe that hell would be better than my life..
Amit–
I’m sorry you’re suffering. You can get better, but you need to get help. Are you on meds? There are very effective meds and other treatments, but you need to get to a professional ASAP.
CBird
hi i think i am suffering from ocd i am forced to do religious deeds terribly and repeatedly without my will cn i be cured without any allopathic treatment
I KNOW REIKI . I WNT TO GET RID OF RELIGIOUS REIKI THROUGH REIKI GUIDE ME PLEASE
since i was 8 year old i am suffering fropm religious ocd .before that i dnt rememeber . its torturing me i wnt to get rid of it.i am nt leading a normal life . i came to know about it 2 months before only .i cnt tel it to my family . i als dnt wnt to tak any allopathic treatment.i know reiki .cn anyone help and guide me
Maybe we all have some form of OCD. I sometime wonder about myself. I am researching because a member of my family has it. I’m not sure where the line should be drawn between someone who has it and someone who does not.